What You Should NEVER Say to a Personal Injury Lawyer

By Yosi Yahoudai Founder and Managing Partner

September 19, 2025

Personal Injury

Clients often think they need to filter their words when talking to an attorney. However, once you become a client, your attorney is bound by attorney-client privilege which means that it is our job to listen, protect, and advocate. 

When you’re dealing with a serious injury, every detail matters. Whether it’s your first meeting or a follow-up, what you say can shape how your case is evaluated, handled, and ultimately resolved. 

Can I Say “It Was Probably My Fault”?

Yes, we want to hear everything. 

Sometimes clients blame themselves when they’re not actually at fault. Most people don’t understand the full scope of California’s liability laws, and they shouldn’t have to. That’s our job. Determining fault is often complex and can involve multiple parties, including other drivers, property owners, or even local governments. 

California is a comparative negligence state, meaning fault can be shared among several parties. Your only job is to give us the full picture. Our job is to investigate and assess liability while you focus on getting better. 

Can I Say “I Feel Fine Now”?

Yes, but remember: that’s just right now.  

Saying you “feel fine” can suggest your injuries aren’t serious, even when symptoms may not appear immediately. 

Some injuries – like internal trauma, neck strain, or concussions – don’t become apparent right away. Expressing that you’re fine early on can be used against you later if pain or limitations arise. 

What About “I Haven’t Seen a Doctor Yet”?

You can say that, but you should also seek medical treatment.  

Gaps in seeking medical care often give insurance companies a reason to argue your injuries are minor or exaggerated. 

If you don’t have a doctor you’re currently seeing, ask your attorney if they can refer you to a trusted medical professional in your area.

Can I Tell the Insurance Company “I Already Gave a Statement”?

No. Not unless your lawyer says it’s okay. 

Insurance adjusters are trained to twist words and minimize your claim. Anything you say without legal guidance can wind up hurting you later. 

Instead, after retaining an attorney, you can tell the insurance company: “I’ve retained legal representation. Please contact my attorney for further communication.” 

Can I Say “I Just Want to Settle This Quickly”?

Yes, but it’s important to understand what that really means. 

Wanting to move on is natural. You’re tired, overwhelmed, and just want this chapter closed. However, rushing to settle often means leaving thousands of dollars in future medical care, ongoing therapy, lost income, and pain and suffering on the table. 

Insurance companies know you’re vulnerable. That’s when they move in with lowball offers. They’ll act like they’re doing you a favor when in reality, they’re protecting their bottom line. Accepting a settlement too soon could mean you end up paying out of pocket for treatment that should’ve been covered. 

Instead, ask how the insurance adjuster calculated your medical expenses. Ask what they factored in for follow-up treatment or physical therapy. Be prepared to show receipts for medications, mobility aids, or other out-of-pocket costs. Let your attorney fight back when the numbers don’t match your reality. 

A settlement should never be rushed. It should be right. 

Honesty Matters, But So Does Trust

Never lie to your lawyer. It’s also okay if you don’t have every answer right away. Your attorney’s role is to guide, investigate, and ensure your story strengthens your case. That only works if there’s trust. You need to feel comfortable being honest and open, so choose a lawyer who listens, responds to your concerns, and makes you feel supported. 

“When clients speak openly, we listen carefully,” says Arthur Dermendjian, Pre-Litigation Managing Attorney. “We know when to step in and protect them from the legal traps built into this system. Personal injury cases are about building your story and timing the details effectively.” 

If you or someone you love has been injured, contact J&Y Law for a free, confidential consultation. Our team is here to guide you through the legal process with clarity, care, and confidence.